Practical Positive Discipline Strategies for Parents

1. Use "Connection Before Correction"

Before addressing misbehavior, take a moment to connect with your child emotionally. A simple

hug, a reassuring word, or getting down to their eye level can help calm their emotions and make

them more receptive to guidance.

2. Set Clear, Age-Appropriate Expectations

Children need to know what is expected of them. Be clear, consistent, and realistic in your

expectations based on their age and developmental stage.

3. Offer Choices to Encourage Cooperation

Giving children choices allows them to feel empowered rather than controlled. Instead of saying,

“Put your shoes on now,” try, “Would you like to wear your sneakers or sandals?” This

encourages cooperation while reinforcing independence.

4. Teach Natural, Logical Consequences

Instead of punishments, allow children to experience the natural consequences of their actions. If

they forget their lunchbox, they might feel hungry at school. If they refuse to wear a jacket,

they’ll learn why it’s important when they feel cold.

5. Redirect Negative Behavior

Instead of saying “No running inside,” reframe the instruction to “Please walk inside to keep

everyone safe.” Positive phrasing helps children understand what they should do rather than

focusing on what they shouldn’t.

6. Implement Time-In, Not Time-Out

Instead of isolating a child in time-out, time-in involves sitting with them in a calming space to

help them process emotions and regulate their behavior.

7. Encourage Effort, Not Just Results

Praise your child’s effort rather than focusing only on outcomes. Instead of saying, “Good job

on your test,” say, “I noticed how hard you studied—your effort really paid off!” This

builds resilience and a growth mindset.

Why Positive Discipline Works

✅ Strengthens the parent-child bond

✅ Encourages problem-solving and independence

✅ Helps children develop emotional regulation skills

✅ Creates a respectful and cooperative home environment

✅ Reduces power struggles and tantrums

By adopting Positive Discipline, parents can foster kind, confident, and responsible

children who are equipped with the life skills needed to navigate challenges.

Need Support with Parenting Challenges? We Can Help!

Parenting isn’t easy, and sometimes we all need guidance. At Morrow Counseling PLLC, we

offer parenting support and counseling to help you develop Positive Discipline strategies tailored

to your family's unique needs.

Schedule a consultation today and start building a strong, respectful connection with your

child